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Incestuous Relationships in the Church

Friday, July 30th, 2010

Incestuous Relationships in the Church
by Paul Donnan

(This and other blogs by Paul can be found at http://well-beings.blogspot.com/)

Sound like a tabloid expose’ on yet another church scandal?  This one is even more rampant than our Catholic brothers’ troubles.  However this insidious problem is flying below the radar and hasn’t even been detected by most involved.  Let me explain.

When Jesus prepared to leave His disciples, He commissioned them to reproduce, to make other disciples (followers) by teaching the way that leads to everlasting life that Jesus came to secure.  The pattern set forth was relational.

Now think of what is commonly practiced in church settings of all varieties in our day.  We have perfected the art of program driven relationships.  Members are minimally expected to gather once or twice a week at corporate events. It’s not uncommon for more high-impact congregations to expect their followers to additionally attend a small group once or twice a week. 

Evangelism has morphed to an event planned for a Saturday outreach into a targeted neighborhood. A“witness” is something you “do” (or feel inferior if you don’t do).  That’s not at all what Jesus had in mind.  He said in Acts 1:8 that we are to “be” witnesses.  Our everyday life brings Jesus in very close proximity to people who desperately need the savior.  In our lifetime, some have fought to keep the Ten Commandments out of our public schools and buildings.  No one is stopping us from bringing Jesus in to those places, they can’t.  Where we go He goes.

Typical believers are busy gathering with other believers to “do” religious things.  That’s program-driven community.  Who’s reaching out to the lost neighbors on our own street?  The church at large is preoccupied with an incestuous relationship with each other while lost outsiders are entering a Christ-less eternity right before our eyes.  Friends “these things ought not to be so.”

Most people I meet are busy; they’re not looking for one more demand to be put on their plate.  Many people I see do know the loneliness of wondering if anybody cares they exist.  The masses that followed Jesus didn’t do so because there was nothing better to do.  He touched them, spoke life into them, it felt hopeful and they followed Him.  Do you think His approach just may have been intentional?

Sunday morning is the most segregated time in America.  Insiders separated from outsiders, believers from unbelievers.  For those who venture inside the church doors, parents go one way, youth another (sometimes split again by gender) and the littlest children yet somewhere else.  I understand the concept to deliver truth that’s age-appropriate, but that doesn’t exempt the church from taking that same truth outside wherever hurting people are.

When I brought our core team to Crystal Lake last summer to survey the city, we went 2×2 on that Sunday morning to as many churches as we could, to get a pulse for the spiritual climate of the area.  We experienced a lot that morning.  Two of our young gals attended a small church meeting in a hotel setting.  After the service there were cookies set out, it was a great opportunity to meet people.  These gals were hoping to make a connection.  What they experienced was not only silence, but as the church goers talked with each other, they rotated their backs to these obvious “new people” so they could enjoy each other’s company.  The “norm”?  I hope not.  The “exception”?  I fear not.  Why?  “Because it’s Sunday, I already went out evangelizing with the church Saturday.”

“Christianity is not a religion it’s a relationship”.  Heard that one?  Oh, you mean with “other people” too?  What a concept, “be witnesses unto me”.  You are bringing Jesus in very close proximity with people every day.  Can they tell?  Are you wetting their appetite for the savior?  Or are you presenting a cloistered community called church, which they hope to avoid?

I double dog dare you to go visit a new church Sunday.  See what it feels like to be an “outsider”.  Maybe it will change the way you see and relate to people you don’t yet know.

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http://well-beings.blogspot.com/2010/07/incestuous-relationships-in-church.html

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Vision Insights For Congregations – The First 75

Friday, July 9th, 2010

This is an article from Goerge Bullard – Ministry Partner with The Columbia Partnership

 E-mail: GBullard@TheColumbiaPartnership.org; Web Site: www.TheColumbiaPartnership.org

This is a collection of Vision Insights from George Bullard who has been involved in strategic planning with congregations, denominations, and parachurch organizations for 35 years. For the foreseeable future a new insight will be posted each Monday through Friday on

George’s Twitter account at www.Twitter.com/BullardJournal  and on his Facebook Profile page at www.Facebook.com/BullardJournal.

Periodically an update of the full collection will be posted to his blog at www.BullardJournal.org.

Vision Insight 001: Vision is a movement of God that is memorable rather than a statement by humankind that is memorized.

Vision Insight 002: Vision is not what leaders cast and followers catch. It is something by which leaders and followers are captivated.

Vision Insight 003: The only vision that will work is God’s vision. Neither the pastor’s vision nor the board’s vision is sufficient.

Vision Insight 004: Visionary Leadership is about who we are, what we believe, where we are heading, and how we are getting there.

Vision Insight 005: Vision plus Intentionality is the core formula for an Enduring Visionary Leadership Community to follow.

Vision Insight 006: Any similarity between the typical committee-developed vision statement and true vision is purely accidental.

Vision Insight 007: Vision is not so much written as it is experienced. Vision must be sensed and experienced rather than read or heard.

Vision Insight 008: When considering how vision comes, it may be helpful to consider how the New Testament came. By experience first, and then written.

Vision Insight 009: Vision is experienced. We reflect on it and share it orally with our full heart, soul, mind, and strength. Then we write it.

Vision Insight 010: We write down the vision we have experienced to have a consistent historic and dynamic sharing of the vision with congregation.

Vision Insight 011: Vision is the super high octane fuel that drives the spiritual strategic journey of a congregation or denomination.

Vision Insight 012: Where there is no vision a congregation is confused and travels in circles without any clear sense of direction.

Vision Insight 013: Vision is about leadership rather than management. Management should be accountable to visionary leadership.

Vision Insight 014: If congregations focus on the pastor’s vision, when the pastor leaves vision often leaves. Vision from God never leaves.

Vision Insight 015: When congregations expect the pastor to provide vision, they often mean a vision that agrees with their vision.

Vision Insight 016: When visionary leadership is not present in a congregation, it creates a vacuum into which management rushes.

Vision Insight 017: For vision to be effective in a congregation it must be owned by at least 21 percent of adults present for weekly worship.

Vision Insight 018: The founding vision in a congregation often empowers the congregation for the first generation of its life.

Vision Insight 019: Following the first generation of the life of a congregation vision must be recast and re-owned every seven to nine years.

Vision Insight 020: A congregation captivated by vision is always asking how decisions and actions will help them fulfill their vision.

Vision Insight 021: Congregations without vision become increasing susceptible to unhealthy conflict and control by a few.

Vision Insight 022: Once present in a congregation, vision is not always present. Even the best vision movements wane with time.

Vision Insight 023: Vision casting is about the future that is unfolding under God’s leadership; not the past that acts as a foundation.

Vision Insight 024: Vision casting is the responsibility of all leaders in a congregation with pastor’s initiating leadership.

Vision Insight 025: When vision is asleep in the back seat of the congregational vehicle, management drives and is happy about it.

Vision Insight 026: Management is only fully happy when it is driving the congregational vehicle. When not driving, it is trying to drive.

Vision Insight 027: Many congregations structure their life around programs rather than relationships, thus putting a drag factor on vision.

Vision Insight 028: When congregations are in the best possible relationship with God and one another they can easily feel vision.

Vision Insight 029: Too much focus on a professional vision statement takes the focus off of a real vision experience.

Vision Insight 030: Vision is so much more than a marketing statement or motto, yet these can be important in communicating vision.

Vision Insight 031: Vision is more about increasing and deepening discipleship than it is about successful and growing programs.

Vision Insight 032: To be truly missional, vision is more than pushing programs and ministries into the context around the church location.

Vision Insight 033: To begin to be truly missional, vision is about pulling the people of the congregation into the context for ministry.

Vision Insight 034: To be totally missional, vision is about leaping into the context for radical ministry, leaving the existing congregation behind.

Vision Insight 035: Programs, processes, and emphases in a congregation must have their own vision that supports the congregation’s vision.

Vision Insight 036: Leaders sold out to their congregation’s vision often think about how they can help fulfill that vision.

Vision Insight 037: Potential leaders who cannot articulate their passion for the congregation’s vision need to remain potential leaders.

Vision Insight 038: Pastors who are not passionate about the vision for their congregation are likely to become known as former.

Vision Insight 039: Pastors who are not passionate about the vision for their congregation are likely to become known as mediocre.

Vision Insight 040: Staff ministers who are not passionate about the vision for their congregation are likely to become known as former.

Vision Insight 041: Pastors and staff who feel entitled to their role with a particular congregation are not likely to empower vision.

Vision Insight 042: When it comes to vision, good enough is never good enough, adequate is never acceptable, and mediocrity is never excellent.

Vision Insight 043: If vision is too clear it may be too close to you, not challenging, prophetic, and focus on your full kingdom potential.

Vision Insight 044: Vision may always be a little fuzzy–particularly in the ways to fulfill it–if it is looking beyond the current horizon.

Vision Insight 045: Vision will always be something that is beyond your current grasp, around the corner, or over the next hill.

Vision Insight 046: Vision is not a passing fantasy or a fleeting passion. It is a long-term view of God’s calling on a congregation.

Vision Insight 047: Even though vision involves the long-view, it must be reconceptualized at least every seven to nine years or it dies.

Vision Insight 048: When does the leadership of a congregation finish casting vision? Never, or it dies. Casting is a forever activity.

Vision Insight 049: Vision and its fulfillment should positively impact every decision a congregation makes or it becomes marginalized.

Vision Insight 050: The sustainability of vision may be dependent on how well it is cast for and owned by new people in the congregation.

Vision Insight 051: Killers of a new vision in a congregation are the people who will not let go of the old vision.

Vision Insight 052: Vision is not about new buildings, but about the lives transformed through the ministries in new buildings.

Vision Insight 053: Vision fulfillment is more about empowerment than control, relationships than programs, and hope than heritage.

Vision Insight 054: Vision is always about the future. Vision is never just about the past. The past is a prelude to the emerging future.

Vision Insight 055: Vision involves forgetting what is behind, and looking forward to what is ahead. [See Philippians 3:13]

Vision Insight 056: Vision is about pressing on towards the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. [See Philippians 3:14]

Vision Insight 057: Vision is about leaving your land of heritage and going forward to a new place God will show you. [See Genesis 12:1]

Vision Insight 058: A visionary journey can be scary as it takes us to new, strange places so far away that we cannot see familiar places.

Vision Insight 059: Where there is no vision for new things God is doing people run away from opportunities and get swallowed by big fish.

Vision Insight 060: Vision does not call for the rejection of heritage. It sees it as a foundation, a prelude, a centering, and moorings.

Vision Insight 061: Moses did not see vision in the burning bush. He experienced it with his whole being and was transformed by it.

Vision Insight 062: Aaron had to accommodate to the lack of vision with am image of God people could see and touch.

Vision Insight 063: God offers transformative vision. Too often our possessions, deference to other people, and pride blind us.

Vision Insight 064: Too often earthly things, preferences, and tangible security blind us to the brilliance of God’s new vision.

Vision Insight 065: In general, the longer people are connected with a congregation, the more difficult it is to see a new vision.

Vision Insight 066: Vision is more about the transformation of the prodigals that the honoring of the elders among us.

Vision Insight 067: Myopia prohibits many long-term members from seeing the long-term benefits of new vision.

Vision Insight 068: The word vision contain neither the letter “m” nor the letter “e”. Vision is not about me. It is about God.

Vision Insight 069: Empowering vision often disrupts the status quo and who is in change. That is why some people try to kill it.

Vision Insight 070: People with vision can read Jesus’ writing in the sand, and realize what they must do. Others say “Huh?”.

Vision Insight 071: People with vision know they must leave the 99 and focus on the one. People without vision see only the faithful.

Vision Insight 072: Vision is about walking by faith in God rather than by what is in plain sight. [See 2 Corinthians 5:7]

Vision Insight 073: Vision acknowledges that the early Church that huddled too long in Jerusalem lost vision.

Vision Insight 074: During a visionary journey God at times changes our plans and heads us to a new Macedonia. [See Acts 16:9-10]

Vision Insight 075: In the Apostle Paul’s life we see that a vision of your destiny guides many choices along the road to Rome.

Important Things to Know

George Bullard is a Ministry Partner with The Columbia Partnership. He is also General Secretary [executive director] of the North American Baptist Fellowship of the Baptist World Alliance. The Columbia Partnership is a non-profit Christian ministry organization focused on transforming the capacity of the North American Church to pursue and sustain Christ-centered ministry. Travel Free Learning is a leadership development emphasis. For more information about products and services check out the web site at www.TheColumbiaPartnership.org, send an e-mail to Client.Care@TheColumbiaPartnership.org, or call 803.622.0923.

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Recovering the WOW Factor

Thursday, July 8th, 2010

Luke 10:24-37

Jesus said and did some really horrifying things throughout his ministry.

You probably shutter at the very thought of that sentence, but it is true.  The problem is that many of us have heard the stories and teaching of Jesus so often that they simply don’t carry anymore the impact that they should.   

I wonder what would happen to us if we could hear Jesus’ words as if we’d never heard them before.  What kind of revolutionary impact might they have on our lives if we could hear Jesus again for the first time – without all the filters that familiarity brings. 

Jesus tells us not to worry about what we are going to eat or wear. 

Jesus tells us not to save for a rainy day but to trust God to supply our daily needs.

Jesus tells us that if somebody attacks, don’t fight back, but turn the other cheek.

Jesus says that if somebody robs us we should give them more than what they demand. 

If you want to be great, Jesus says become a servant.

In tough economic times, Jesus says we should give all our money to care for the poor.   

 “Turn the other cheek!”

 “Don’t return violence with violence.” 

 “Love your enemies and bless those who persecute you.”

 “Take up the cross!”

I know what’s going on in your mind right now.  I thought the same thing when I began preparing this message.  “Yes, but…” I thought to myself.  “Yes, Jesus said all those things…but he didn’t really mean it!” 

Next I started offering all the excuses, explanations, and rationalizations that I’ve collected from decades of sermons and Bible studies – the things I’ve learn to take the edge off.  Then I started thinking, “What if the excuses, explanations, and rationalizations are wrong?  What if Jesus really said what he meant and meant what he said?  What if we are not allowed to files away as irrelevant the things that Jesus said that we really don’t like or understand?”

What if we recovered the WOW-factor in Jesus teachings, stories, and actions?

Like with today’s story, for example.  The “parable of the Good Samaritan” is one of the most well-known stories in human literature.  Like you I have heard this story read, preached, and taught in so many sermons and Bible studies that it seemed rather trite to preach it all again.  How can I we get a fresh hearing of this story when we’ve heard it all so many times before?  How can we rediscover the WOW-factor in this story? 

…To hear the rest of this sermon, come to Patterson Avenue Baptist Church this Sunday, July 11th, 2010.  We conduct Bible Studies for all ages at 9:45am, followed by Family Praise worship at 11:00am.  See you then!

The full text and an audio of the sermon will be available online after July 11th

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